MARITAL IDENTITY

By Femi Olomola - August 16, 2016
MARITAL IDENTITY
SERMON FOR THE WEEK (MARITAL IDENTITY)
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Title: Marital Identity
Bible text: (Matthew 5: 27-28, Genesis 20: 1- 14)
Ministering: Femi S Olomola (President @www.elshaddai-elohim.org)
Copyright© Femi .S. Olomola 2017 [All rights reserved!]
Publish by: Wefos Project Int'l Limited 
First Published [Summary Edition] Nov, 2017
ISBN: 978-978-953658-0
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Recap of last Sermon:  
During the last sermon, we talked about “Heavenly Judgment” to consciously awaken our understanding of the relationship in our earthly nature and judgment to after life because the life you live now will be a mirror to your after life experience. Do not be deceived, for God is not mock and whatsoever a man soweth, that he shall also reap whether in this present life, or after, or the one to come [Galatians 6: 7]. 
One thing to note about judgment is that there must be a satisfactory acceptable or unacceptable circumstances surrounding such premises for such judgment to hold its ground and one of the greatest acceptable channels which forms the bases for which God execute His judgment is His wrath which likewise comes with great recompense of reward [Hebrew 10: 35-37. You can follow the link below to view the last week sermon www.facebook.com/club4christ  
Preamble:
This week, we shall be looking at a message titled “Marital Identity” to consciously awaken our understanding of the needful and how devastating an undisclosed or unguided marital status could poses serious threat to our spiritual life and those around us. This message is not for the married alone but also for the single and the world at large and so I will admonish you to read through and be blessed.
Marriage is a blessed institution ordained by God [Genesis 2: 18-24] and it is one of the sweet phenomenal of life that can ever happen to a man but it is also the most dangerous channel to destruction if not followed in a godly manner [1 Corinthians 7: 28, mark 10: 8,]. It is a channel through which the devil knocks out every individual easily without much stress simply because the two will become one flesh [Mark 10: 8]. 
It is therefore an utmost requirement that marriage life and status be cautiously guided and proclaimed at all times as there is a high sense of spiritual backing or judgement attach to this. Please sit back and enjoy this great lecture that will be an eye opener for you and change your life forever.  
Introduction: 
Marriage is a very critical and mysterious phenomenon and so, the devil doesn’t joke with it. He sit at that junction for his most stubborn prey and you know virtually everyone on this planet will go through this stage of life which therefore means that a high sense of orderliness, coordination and knowledge in God is greatly require to succeed within this phase of life. I pray that you not be a marital prey of the devil in Jesus name. 
Though God created and set the foundation of the institution of Marriage for His own purpose which is to manifest His glory among men [Genesis 1: 28] but the devil also uses it as a great tool to accomplish his mission of stealing, killing and destroying [John 10: 10] through all manner of ways and so, marriage can happen or have its root in the spiritual through spiritual wife and husband, even before manifesting in the physical and which may later come to pass depending on the type of assignment, state of mind and awareness of the target or parties involve.
The hard truth that need be known is that a greater number of percentage of actual secular marriage on earth either between believing and unbelieving spouse are indirectly or directly under the lordship of the devil and his cohort as he [devil] is working greatly to have souls under him which becomes his primary assignment and the easiest way to continue on his ministry of stealing, killing and destroying is through marriage with the three greatest method usually employed by the devil which forms his strongest tools among others and these are 1. Love, 2. hiding under the shadow of righteousness, and 3. Money.
Marriage is unique and more spiritual than we see because it put the two involve to become one (mark 10: 😎 especially after mating which therefore necessitate a more caution life style within the interface in the area of public declaration, dressing and inter-personal relationship so that the oneness be not contaminated. Continued declaring of your marital status is higly required and recommended [Matthew 5: 31, Matthew 5: 27-28] especially for young newly wedded good looking ladies that may eventually be attracting series of reactions and urge or desire from men so that God will not judge you for allowing yourself to be an instrument in the hand of the devil causing men to fall [Mark 9: 42]. God is a judge over all affair on earth and you cannot allow the devil be using you send wrong signal to innocent men destroying future home and expect yours to be perfect and sweet.
The truth is that the devil can smartly operate through looking and desiring over what is being looked upon and can conveniently work on either of the two parties involved because they had open a window for such. Take for instance, a lady with strong desire to dress flamboyantly beautiful and captivating will as a matter of fact involve in immoral dressing unconsciously which the devil will be using as a great hidden spiritual communication tool to bring men down especially those that want to serve God in holiness. Especailly for those ladies who love to sample and cliff their breast or butt for men to get attracted to them, please desist totally from it as God will not be happy with you for such act of immorality causing men to fall.
In lieu of the above, our bible text [Matthew 5: 27-28] admonish us not to be looking erratically to lust after immoral things which says: “Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, thou shalt not commit adultery, but i say unto you that whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart”
Beloved, the heart is the engine room of a man and when the engine room is contaminated, just as we read above in our bible text, the supposed spiritual and physical being of such man will malfunction or dance to the effect of such contamination. Woman are endowed with much glory of God that can make a man to stumble and you know our lord Jesus Christ make us understand that anyone who make those who believe in Him stumble, that it will be better for such person if a large mile stone is hang on his neck and have him thrown into the sea [Mark 9: 42 NIV]
 This is why it is important for the woman generally both married and unmarried to declare their marital identity through: 1. Moderate not flamboyant wedding ring which is a form of marital solidarity especially for young looking beautiful spouse who may be drawing series of incessant desire from neutral men, 2. moderate not flamboyant dress of that of a house wife which professes the name of God and equally abstain from every immoral value so they will not be judge and so that all other desire from innocent people will rest except such men also is of the devil. 
The implication of a woman already causing men to fall is that she is already living spiritually with such demonic power or agent that will be inducing a strong desire in her to look flamboyantly and captivating beautiful which will definitely comes with an immoral tone to a certain degree consciously or unconsciously and even sometimes the devil provides good job and money available to the individuals in this category to service this area of their life so they can be more effective for his ministry. This is the reason why so many broken matrimonial home yet there is money but the home is scattered because there had been a strange visitor which is the demonic agent that live within or sometimes the home may not be broken but the victim will turn out to be a captive of the devil and therefore, the glory of God that transcend peace and all understanding have been taken away [Philippians 4: 6-7].
To live a good matrimonial home and be in peace at all time with your spouse then you must strive not to be an instrument in the hand of the devil to be using you to destroy others people future or home, by a way of causing men to lust after you and thereby contaminate their Godly heart. May the lord grant you the grace to live up to His required moral standard in Jesus name.
Conclusion:
Now you know that it is of high importance to declare your marital identity as explained above through moderate not flamboyant wedding rings, moderate Godly behaviour and moral dress so you may not cause men to stumble and be judge especially if you are the type that may draw much desire and attention around men as this maybe causing serious contamination both in you and those who lust after you and thereby affecting your marriage because a strange demonic visitor had gained entrance into your matrimonial home through such act.
This means that to have a good matrimonial home is to live a good matrimonial life so not to affect that of others because when you allow the devil using you to minister immortality in the heart of men, you are likely causing them to fail in their future home. Trust me. You may not even be aware of this, as it may looks normal to you in your physical eyes but to God who owns your body as a temple, it is absorb and an act of wickedness (1 Corinthians 3: 17).
It is good and highly recommended you declare your marital identity so you remove yourself from Gods judgment and if you are not married now, then make sure you dress, behave, and relate with people in such a way or manner not to be allowing men lust after you because if you do, you will take part of the judgement [Mark 9: 42]. Especailly for those ladies who love to sample and cliff their breast or butt for men to get attracted to them, please desist totally from it as God will not be happy with you for such act of immorality causing men to fall. May the lord grant you the grace to survive this even as you desire to live to this standard in Jesus name.
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Confession: 
If you have not accepted Jesus Christ as your lord and saviour and you are convinced that you need him to come into your life so you can also tap into the grace available through shedding of his blood, and equally partake of the effectiveness of his wrath and the blessing that comes with it, and that you are sure, you are ready to repent from all those sin of fornication, adultery, lying, sexual immorality, pride, jealousy, hatred, idolatry, selfish ambition, witchcraft, impurity and debauchery, dissensions, envy, drunkenness, orgies and the likes, then locate a quiet place, be sober and be on your knees, and make this little confession but remember to be sure of what you are doing, so that you will not be using God to play, when you respect him and give him honour, he will also honour you in the sight of men (Matthew 6: 6).
Lord Jesus, i come with total humbleness of heart to ask for forgiveness of my sins and accept you as my lord and saviour, please forgive me of all my sin (you can begin to name them if you know them) I surrender my life to you and i want you to come and take full charge over my life and i accept you as my lord and my saviour, please cleanse me with your blood that you shed on the cross and make me a new man leaving old things behind, I promise to serve you and do your will at all time and i ask for the strength to carry on. Thank you, Lord Jesus, for saving me.
Congratulation, you have made a step forward in tapping into his grace, now for you not to fall back, you must look out for a good holy spirit filled church or a good Redeem Christian Church of God (RCCG) to worship and begin to study the word of God, if you have just done this, you can also contact me for direction and get a free copy of my book and publications to strengthen your faith. May the lord give you the grace to carry on in Jesus name.
Preacher's Note: 
It is my greatest desire that this sermon minister grace unto your soul but this is not enough, to be able to overcome the desire of the flesh as we have learnt above require deep knowledge of God, because it is until you have this knowledge that you can take your place and do exploit for God and yourself, and so i will urgently urge you to be rooted and grounded in the word of God, in other to deepen your faith, knowledge and relationship with God. You can also look out for  our previous publish article and book at www.elshaddai-elohim.org  to deepen your knowledge in Christ and this will go a long way to minister grace to you as I have compiled series of eye opener with several topics about God and human existence and knowing the true God and which will be the basis of your success in all sphere of life. Ignorance is the highest form of bondage that limit your power of knowledge in God which carry much power above all things on this earth, so be informed of God knowledge and stay out of the dark circle. The lord bless you as you do.
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Publish by
Wefos Project Int'l Limited
First Published [Summary Edition] 2016
ISBN: 978-978-953-658-0
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